Section 4: Being in a Relationship
Once you are in a relationship, it is easy to over compensate or to freak out, so let me shed some light on what is bad, and what doesn't matter.
1. You are the girl, you will do most of the work when it comes to marriage. The guy you are dating probably know this too. So right now, have fun, and be the controlling one, you may have to take the initiative if you want to go to a movie or something.
2. You may not flirt with another girl's boyfriend, even if you hate the girl. All her friends will gang up on you and will probably spread rumors about you, true or false.
3. You CANNOT try to break up a relationship for your own gain. If you like a boy who has a girlfriend, tough luck.
Exception: If 3/4 of the girl's friends agree with you that she is being badly influenced by a guy(drugs, alchohol, ect.) you can try to get the girl to dump him, but she doesn't have to.
4. If your friend got the guy you were after and she didn't have "first dibs" if they are going out, suck it up. Even if your friend agreed that you could have first go with the guy, if he asks her out, you can't control that.
5. If you know someone is after your bf, you have every right in the universe (and frankly I think the universe might be on your side for this) swear at her loudly and obscenely as you like.
6. If your Boyfriend turns out to be totally lame and falls for said other girls attempts to break you up, break that bitches' nose! And more power to ya!
7. In every relationship, there is a reacher an a settler. The reacher reached up and is dating someone who is out of their league, the settler settles for someone who is below their league. Your relationship is probably the same, as long as you know (or think you know)which one you are with out having to ask your bf, you are ok, if you really can't tell, DON"T ASK you might be the perfect couple.
8. See ya later, when guys say it, it means that either they want to see you again later, but now they have to go, or that they are mad/tired of something you did. You can tell by how they say it. If they smile and/or accompany it with a smile, you are good. If it comes out with a sigh, or he seems exasperated, be careful, give him an hour before you ask him if he is mad.
9. Your boyfriend loves you, when they say I love you, that is what they mean, they are in love with you, that is all i love you ever means.
10. Once you have secured your guy, it's time for The First Kiss
11. Be sure that you can distinguish Chivalry from Sexism
1. You are the girl, you will do most of the work when it comes to marriage. The guy you are dating probably know this too. So right now, have fun, and be the controlling one, you may have to take the initiative if you want to go to a movie or something.
2. You may not flirt with another girl's boyfriend, even if you hate the girl. All her friends will gang up on you and will probably spread rumors about you, true or false.
3. You CANNOT try to break up a relationship for your own gain. If you like a boy who has a girlfriend, tough luck.
Exception: If 3/4 of the girl's friends agree with you that she is being badly influenced by a guy(drugs, alchohol, ect.) you can try to get the girl to dump him, but she doesn't have to.
4. If your friend got the guy you were after and she didn't have "first dibs" if they are going out, suck it up. Even if your friend agreed that you could have first go with the guy, if he asks her out, you can't control that.
5. If you know someone is after your bf, you have every right in the universe (and frankly I think the universe might be on your side for this) swear at her loudly and obscenely as you like.
6. If your Boyfriend turns out to be totally lame and falls for said other girls attempts to break you up, break that bitches' nose! And more power to ya!
7. In every relationship, there is a reacher an a settler. The reacher reached up and is dating someone who is out of their league, the settler settles for someone who is below their league. Your relationship is probably the same, as long as you know (or think you know)which one you are with out having to ask your bf, you are ok, if you really can't tell, DON"T ASK you might be the perfect couple.
8. See ya later, when guys say it, it means that either they want to see you again later, but now they have to go, or that they are mad/tired of something you did. You can tell by how they say it. If they smile and/or accompany it with a smile, you are good. If it comes out with a sigh, or he seems exasperated, be careful, give him an hour before you ask him if he is mad.
9. Your boyfriend loves you, when they say I love you, that is what they mean, they are in love with you, that is all i love you ever means.
10. Once you have secured your guy, it's time for The First Kiss
11. Be sure that you can distinguish Chivalry from Sexism