Section 2: Is he worth it?
The first thing you have to ask yourself if you are about to deploy a "flirting scheme" to get a guy to go out with you, is, is he worth it?
1. If the first thing you noticed was his good looks, proceed with caution, he may be a fickle person
2. If he flirts with you, this is a good sign, he may be seeing your inner charm
Exception: if he flirts with every other girl as well, he's a player. They're a good self-esteem booster, but they're not dating material.
3. How does he flirt? Does he smile at you and laugh at even the smallest joke (cutie!) or does he smack the ass of every girl within arms reach? (player)
4. Make sure he isn't a pervert. Watch the sex jokes. They all make them, but when he's talking about all these chicks he's banged (right), he's crossing a line
5. Be sure to have your own expectations for the guy, such as good looks, brains ect. Don't cave on these, you want to be happy
Exception: You can cave if you expectations are unrealistic, and at least two friends have confirmed this. For example, if you said he had to be a world famous cello player.
6. Before you go in over your head with flirting, make sure he is the kind of guy you want to be with, not some hot jerk
7. Is he a Good Guy?
1. If the first thing you noticed was his good looks, proceed with caution, he may be a fickle person
2. If he flirts with you, this is a good sign, he may be seeing your inner charm
Exception: if he flirts with every other girl as well, he's a player. They're a good self-esteem booster, but they're not dating material.
3. How does he flirt? Does he smile at you and laugh at even the smallest joke (cutie!) or does he smack the ass of every girl within arms reach? (player)
4. Make sure he isn't a pervert. Watch the sex jokes. They all make them, but when he's talking about all these chicks he's banged (right), he's crossing a line
5. Be sure to have your own expectations for the guy, such as good looks, brains ect. Don't cave on these, you want to be happy
Exception: You can cave if you expectations are unrealistic, and at least two friends have confirmed this. For example, if you said he had to be a world famous cello player.
6. Before you go in over your head with flirting, make sure he is the kind of guy you want to be with, not some hot jerk
7. Is he a Good Guy?