The First Kiss
This is for all you NBKs out there (Never been kissed). If your guy is safely secured, and you are comfortable with hugs and stuff, it can be really hard to progress a relationship to the first kiss, especially if it is your First Kiss. This should help
1. You may need a subtle way of bringing up the subject, no matter what happens in the movies, it will not happen spur of the moment with every guy, some need suggestion.
2. A good way to do this is to ask trusted friends to tell him to kiss you, not that you want him to, but to kiss you
3. Once he lets you know what your friends told him, wait a while, the next time you see him, ask him if he thinks your friends gave good advice. Odds are, if he has thought about it a while, he will say yes
4. The first kiss is supposed to be awkward, your stomach should feel like it is full for butterflies, or a plunging sensation. You will blush afterwards, you will want to laugh to deal with the embarrasment, I advise you suppress this. You will feel weird but good afterwards, don't confuse this for not liking him, you should feel it, if you feel nothing, then you aren't ready, or aren't a good couple
ALSO
1. You HAVE to ask him is he is ready for the first kiss, he might not be, so don't jump the gun
2. Once it is established that you are both ready, kiss in PRIVATE. Your first kiss is special, don't share it with the world!
3. Look into his eyes, untill you are too close to do so, then concentrate on the lips, if you two are a good couple, your will not bonk noses, go slowly, watch him, and turn your head oposite directions. If you do crash, you will laugh, and it will be AWKWARD!
4. Before confronting him on the "Should we kiss now?" front, make sure your breath is ok (no garlic/morning breath)
5. Believe it or not, guys, while attracted to plump lips, probably don't want to kiss you and get a mouthful of gloss, so play it down girls
6. The first kiss should last two to three seconds, after that, if you feel like going for more, wait for the signal from your boyfriend, such as a slack jawed look of longing
7. Don't tell many people, only superbest friends at first, If they spill to everyone else, and then make it awkward for you and your guy, feel free to send them all agravated emails.
8. You are not obligated to make out every time you see your boyfriend after that, but a kiss good bye each night is good, take is slow, wait till you don't want to scream in fear every time you kiss, before you begin full on makeout sessions
1. You may need a subtle way of bringing up the subject, no matter what happens in the movies, it will not happen spur of the moment with every guy, some need suggestion.
2. A good way to do this is to ask trusted friends to tell him to kiss you, not that you want him to, but to kiss you
3. Once he lets you know what your friends told him, wait a while, the next time you see him, ask him if he thinks your friends gave good advice. Odds are, if he has thought about it a while, he will say yes
4. The first kiss is supposed to be awkward, your stomach should feel like it is full for butterflies, or a plunging sensation. You will blush afterwards, you will want to laugh to deal with the embarrasment, I advise you suppress this. You will feel weird but good afterwards, don't confuse this for not liking him, you should feel it, if you feel nothing, then you aren't ready, or aren't a good couple
ALSO
1. You HAVE to ask him is he is ready for the first kiss, he might not be, so don't jump the gun
2. Once it is established that you are both ready, kiss in PRIVATE. Your first kiss is special, don't share it with the world!
3. Look into his eyes, untill you are too close to do so, then concentrate on the lips, if you two are a good couple, your will not bonk noses, go slowly, watch him, and turn your head oposite directions. If you do crash, you will laugh, and it will be AWKWARD!
4. Before confronting him on the "Should we kiss now?" front, make sure your breath is ok (no garlic/morning breath)
5. Believe it or not, guys, while attracted to plump lips, probably don't want to kiss you and get a mouthful of gloss, so play it down girls
6. The first kiss should last two to three seconds, after that, if you feel like going for more, wait for the signal from your boyfriend, such as a slack jawed look of longing
7. Don't tell many people, only superbest friends at first, If they spill to everyone else, and then make it awkward for you and your guy, feel free to send them all agravated emails.
8. You are not obligated to make out every time you see your boyfriend after that, but a kiss good bye each night is good, take is slow, wait till you don't want to scream in fear every time you kiss, before you begin full on makeout sessions